How to Manage Grief During the Holidays

Holiday Season can be a joyful time for a lot of people, but for some dealing with loss the holidays often create feelings of isolation and longing.  

The season often brings memories that evoke sadness, anguish, and mourning. Some may find themselves feeling lost and sentimental. Seeing empty chairs in family gatherings, listening to that favorite song on the radio, and looking at old photos can make the holidays feel a bit painful. Coping with loss during this time of the year can be difficult, which is why emotional support and healing are essential for finding moments of peace and maintaining a balanced emotional well-being.  

Why Do Holidays Intensify Grief? 

Holidays are often connected to joy, family, and celebration. However, for those who experience loss, holidays can become triggers and cause an unexpected wave of emotion. Greif is not predictable, and even months or years later, a simple reminder during the holiday season can make all those emotions resurface again.  

Here are some ways the holidays can intensify grief: 

Traditions 

Traditions hold deep emotional meaning, so when they change or become absent, pain may be triggered.  

Memories and Reminders 

Holiday season is filled with cues that bring back memories. A familiar song, smell, or decorating the tree with old ornaments can cause cherished memories to reappear, further intensifying your grief.  

Expectations  

During the holidays, there is often an implicit expectation to be cheerful and happy. However, there is no “right way” to feel. You may feel forced to participate in gatherings, hide heavy emotions, or even participate in traditions you no longer feel comfortable in.  

Tips on Managing Grief During the Holidays  

Although grief can sometimes feel intense, there are many ways to care for yourself and your wellbeing. Consider the following approaches:     

Acknowledge your emotions 

Allow yourself to feel whatever comes up, avoiding your emotions will only prolong grief, making it harder for you to find healing.  

Express your feeling 

Journaling, scrapbooking, or any other activity you enjoy can help you convey your feelings. Allowing you to manage grief in a healthy way.  

Talk to others 

Talking to someone, like a trusted friend or even a professional at Dream Counseling, can help you express your emotions. 

Practice Self-Care 

Sleeping earlier, eating well, exercising, and resting when needed can positively affect your physical and mental health, when traveling through grief.  

Navigating the Holidays Through Grief 

Finding the right guidance will help you navigate through the holidays season without feeling overwhelmed. Speaking to a professional is a great way to get the right type of support, process your grief, and explore the possible tools that can help you. Here at Dream Counseling, we provide personalized guidance that can help you rise through tough moments so you can find comfort, clarity and hope.  

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